Our Children

Our Children

Thursday, January 6, 2011

6/365: Family Meshing

Another blessed day in the Vance household. Kaylynn started back to mommy's day out and we are settling back into our old routine we had going before the holidays. After dropping her off, Connor and I went to meet up with Connor's birth mother and birth grandmother to get his social security card. I know allot of people only see the birth family once or twice during the child's life and sometimes none at all, not in our case. When we took Connor in our hearts and home, we also took in his birth mother, grandparents and both his sisters. Not only did we accept them, but they accepted us and Kaylynn, especially his grandparents. To them and us it was a "package deal"; they got an extra grandchild (Kaylynn) and we got a extra set of parents. Everyone ask how they act around us and Kaylynn, the only thing I can say is they act like family; family that has always been there. We mesh; our two little families and even though we all except Connor's birth mother to run off as soon as she knows her little one is officially ours; his birth grandparents will remain a main part of both our children's lives. And really, no one can ever have to many people loving them.
Goodnight all; See ya'll tomorrow

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